The Science of cuddle

I wanna cuddle you so hard 

I love to cuddle, Specially on a cold rainy day with hot choco, That would be my perfect scenario.
Since I was a kid, love to snuggle pillows before I fell asleep, I call it "Yakap" It's a dedicated pillow just for hugging and squashing and a good protection against evil entities in the dark. without it, I can never get to sleep. rawr.

But there is a certain stage in the male life that it does not matter anymore, while women feel the urge to cuddle more often

Did you know that The act of cuddling releases a hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the "cuddling hormone.” Oxytocin is responsible for provoking what scientists refer to as “pair bonding,” which means it makes the cuddling couple feel closer and more intimate. 

It was already known that oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reduction of anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security. Many studies have shown a correlation of oxytocin with human bonding.

Hmm.. I wonder

You see, most of the time men, fell asleep after sex, while women feels the opposite. why?

The reason for this is all about the hormones your brain releases after sex. As a man has an orgasm, a variety of brain chemicals are released including the hormone prolactin. Prolactin has a strong connection to sleep so its presence is probably responsible for a man’s tendency to want to sleep after sex. The release of prolactin also indicates the beginning of the “recovery time” that men have to take before having sex again. Women often don’t require any such time-out after having an orgasm.
Read more: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_250/283_cuddling.html#ixzz2VJROJidH

It's frustrating right?

and usually girls thinks were jerks, heartless fuckmachines, but acutally its our body that's telling us to rest and recover.

So how can we beat this shit?

Simple.

Do the TAD to Cuddle (I just made that up) routine and you'll be the most cuddling guru there is.

1. Touch her face
2. Kiss her forehead
3. Make eye contact
4. Gently run your hands up and down her arms
5. Intertwine your fingers with hers
6. Rub her back gently
7. Hug her tight
8. Sleep

And before you know it, you cuddled and rested without being a total douche.

yet another hipster post card

So there you have it! Just always remember, cuddling doesn't have to be relegated to a post-sex-only activity. In fact, she’ll probably enjoy it more if you spontaneously start a cuddle session in the middle of the day. Also, don’t forget that the point of cuddling is not to morph into foreplay on the way to sex. Cuddle for cuddling’s sake and the next time you do have sex, you’ll reap the rewards of making your girlfriend feel happy, connected and close to you.

Cheers!